My mother had me at 38 and just so you know we are extremely close to this day I am 41. Honestly, parenting is hard AF no matter when you do it. Personally, someone with six children five of them are teenagers right now, I wish that I had gotten pregnant in January of NEVER. Just kidding. This is just a rough patch, is what I tell myself as I make sure I understand what a blessing they are considered through clenched teeth.